[Dear Freddie:] Your letter is truly interesting. I am sorry that so many people seem to get a little wisdom only with hindsight.1
As you know, I have said not a word publicly in criticism of any officer of World War II, including Monty. Following the policy of ignoring such criticism publicly, I have also, except in such circumstances as when you and I met, avoided conversations of this type, even in private.2 In other words, I have never allowed such matters to disturb me more than momentarily.
But this does not mean that many others--especially my old military friends and associates--have failed to voice considerable resentment, possibly out of a feeling of loyalty to me.3
The telecasting of an interview (which many of my friends saw but which I did not) has seemed to many people here as a deliberate affront. A number of people, including editorial writers and military friends, have expressed the thought that no matter what might be the advantage now of pondering the military "might-have-beens", the fact remains that the war in Western Europe was conducted under the program that I personally laid out in broad outline and victory was achieved much more rapidly than "official" prophets had foreseen.4
All this you know. I merely make the point that, because of the resentment on the part of some of my old friends, it would likely be bad judgment, at this particular time, for Monty to make any attempt to visit me.5
I assure you that my feeling is merely one of disappointment, not of rancor. Even Winston, when he was here, remarked that obviously I felt little personal resentment toward Monty’s publicity endeavors because he (Winston) had noted that, in our living quarters on the second floor of the White House, Monty’s picture occupied the same place as in former years.6
My feelings about any visit apply also to any explanatory statement Monty might conceivably make about the affair. He obviously cannot retreat from a public position that he has already made clear; consequently there would be no hope of such a statement making for better "allied" feeling. Likewise, I think any correspondence between us could not be very helpful because of the reason that Monty, both by publications and broadcasts, has made the whole matter a public affair, not a private one.
All this is, of course, negative. But I feel that if the matter is to be healed in any way, that time will have to be relied on as the healer.
I hope you are getting along with making inquiries of our British friends about the possibility of the "reunion" next year.7 I did not include Winston in the list because obviously he is far from strong and I think we should not ask him to waste any of his energy. Similarly I hope you will not urge anyone else to make a trip that would impose any kind of health risk.
I cannot tell you what a great privilege I felt it was to me to have Winston here. The same goes for your visit. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Write to me when you can.
P.S. If you personally have any different opinions about any of this, of course I will be glad to hear them.