Dear Ian: Your note of May 30th of course strikes a very responsive chord, especially because of my friendship with you and with Field Marshal Montgomery. My first reaction was to comply at once with your request.1 But before agreeing to do so, I want to present some questions that bother me. Among the older and very senior men of the British uniformed services who have stood high in my respect, admiration and affection are such people as Peter Portal, Andrew Cunningham, Arthur Tedder, Pug Ismay, Harold Alexander and, of course, Montgomery.2 There are others.
So far as I know, the BBC has never staged any special ceremony to mark the retirement of any of these people; if it has, I have not been invited to participate. So the specific questions I have are:
(a). If I should now participate in any public ceremony noting the retirement from active service of Montgomery, would the others consider me as having been indifferent when their own retirements took place?
(b). Does it not place before me a very delicate problem in differentiating among my British military friends so far as any public expression of my admiration of their abilities?
(c). Would participation on my part create for me a precedent both with respect of my American friends and associates as well as those British figures for whom at some future date some special ceremony will be planned?
It is questions such as these that bother me. I should like your own opinion about them.3
Because of the confidential and delicate nature of any problem involving personalities, I hope that this matter may be kept on an "EYES ONLY" basis between you and me.4
With warm regard,